For starters I am not a newbie to this site. I have been on this site on and off since my college days. I have gone on friendly dates, made lifelong friends via meet and greet events in Honolulu back in the days and enjoyed several very hot experiences with a few amazing ladies. I consider myself average looking although I've been told that I am cuter than the average guy. My friends say that I am a good listener with an honest and respectful personality. Sexual partners have said that I am gentle and take my time to notice the little things and respond appropriately to make our shared experience more enjoyable than the average experience. My most recent sex partner said the following: What did I love most? Hmmmm, all of it! The fact that you were basically a stranger to me, your gentleness, the way you kissed me, the way you touched me! I loved you cumming inside of me! Really, it was perfect! I can not express how hot it was and then to read about it was insane.....so beautiful! The experience motivated me to write an erotic story for her as that was something that she was into. After a long hard week of enduring work and the stresses of life you decide you want some safe and anonymous erotic fun that is all about you but you want the identity of your partner to be a mystery. You decide to post an ad online and get a hotel room of your choice at a local hotel and check yourself in. After getting settled in your hotel room you check your email for responses to your ad and mines catches your eye so you respond with your room number and time that I should arrive. I arrive at your hotel room at the scheduled time and go to knock on the door but realize that the door is slightly ajar. I quietly and slowly open the door to the room and notice the post it note covering the lock on the door. I follow the instructions on the note and close the door behind me and proceed to the bathroom where you are taking a shower. Following your next instructions I turn off the shower light to signal you that I have arrived and get in the shower with you after getting undressed. I corner you near the shower and start to place soft little kisses on your neck while I fondle your breasts. I turn you against the shower door and nibble on your neck and shoulder while my hands wander until I grab your hips and grind my hard cock against your backside. I then reach for your smooth shaven treasure and start to finger you with one hand while the other gently massages one of your nipples. You reach for my hard cock and slide it between your legs and start to rub the head of my hard cock against your moist treasure. You can no longer resist the temptation as you drop to your knees and slowly lick the shaft and head of my cock and gently take me into your warm mouth. You slowly bob your head up and down sucking ever so gently as you enjoy yourself. You sense my urge to release my warm load so you stop sucking and slowly stroke me up and down with your firm hand. You feel my body tremble as I begin to ooze my warm load all over your hand. We quickly get cleaned up and dried off before you grab my hand and lead me to the bed. You lay face down on the bed as your body glistens under the moonlight shining through the sliding glass doors and ask me to massage you to help you relax. I lotion my hands with the lotion provided by you and start to massage your shoulders, back and legs for a bit. Then you roll over, lay back and ask me to please your sweet, moist center. I start by kissing your inner thighs working my way towards the reward. As I reach your tender center, I start by sliding my tongue up and down your lips then slowly work my way up and down between your lips to get them wet. I then expose your clit and begin to circle my tongue around it swirling it on my tongue. My fingers gently and slowly penetrate you and curve upward as my tongue begins to swirl faster. The speed of my fingers begins to match that of my tongue as you moan with pleasure. Your body begins to arch as I sense that you are close to having an orgasm so I wrap my arms around your legs and hold you down as I quickly flick and swirl my tongue on your clit until your body quivers with pleasure until you cum. I am clean shaven with an average body and I do spend lots of time outdoors so you may accidentally bump into me exercising around town or the local beach/park. Who knows, we may even come across each other at a local store so smile and say hello. I'm unselfish and a giver because it should never be about me. It's all about you first because once you are satisfied the limits are endless. Want to know more, contact me so we can chat and see where things go. If you live here on the Big Island or plan on visiting and need a friend to explore the islands and more, say hi and I'd be happy to show you around.

My Ideal Person The main things I am currently looking for is someone who can enjoy a good friendship with some additional benefits without the complexity of a serious relationship. Someone who is comfortable with who they are but not too full of themselves. Someone who is patient and someone that is respectful about any boundaries we establish.

I don't like to define or categorize people because to me it limits what you are able to experience in life. I have been with a small, medium and plus size woman as well as one younger than me, the same age as me and older than me in my lifetime.

Each experience was unique in its own way. I am smooth shaven and expect any partner to be the same or at least nearly trimmed, although this is not a deal breaker. I know how to use what I have along with my oral abilities.

I have cum multiple times in the past for those who enjoy it more than once. I enjoy both sweet and slow and rough and fast and adapt to any situation quite easily. Anything else you want to know, just ask.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, The middle of a park, A store dressing room, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Voyeurism, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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