how much sex is normal in married life.
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Posted:Nov 30, 2014 5:38 am
Last Updated:May 28, 2024 8:27 am
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ACKNOWLEDGE THE PROBLEM
Sexual libidos differ and it is estimated that one out of three couples struggles with problems associated with low sexual desire. Berman says the most common sexual complaint in committed relationships is uneven desire. Couples need to know that it's essential to compromise and agree to a middle ground. And though it's tough to deal with advances being rebuffed repeatedly, remind yourself that the rejection may not just be about you
TIME THE TALK
In Talking to Your Partner About Sex, couples should start the conversation "outside the bedroom" when they "aren't feeling tense".
Another suggestion in How To Talk About Sex With Your Spouse.one shudn't talk about needs and desires during or right after sex."
BREAK THE ICE
Therapists believe the best place to discuss sex is out of the bedroom — it could be while having coffee at the neighbourhood cafe or while having dinner. Experts recommend opening with a gentle one-liner like, "I love you, and I'd like to feel more connected to you." Agree to keep the conversation short and try not to monopolise it. If you feel uncomfortable, initiate it over the phone but do move to face-to-face eventually.
COMMUNICATE BETTER
Dr couples be clear, open and honest. "Express your needs from a personal perspective. Pay close attention to verbal and nonverbal responses, take your partner's feelings into consideration, and be open to any questions. Verbalising what you are feeling in bed could help too.
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few simple practical steps of seduction.
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Posted:Oct 26, 2014 11:43 am
Last Updated:Jan 28, 2015 5:21 am
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I have used some simple formulas for seduction successfully which i am highlighting here.
- looking into her eyes and stay glued to a little longer than usual. It is a good technique for men, as women always want to feel that a man is attracted to her..
- A smile is an effective way to win your lady. A soft smile would be seductive.
- take your female to good restaurant with an elegant, grand, atmosphere. It makes the day as women tend to judge a man on the first place he takes them.
- dress affluently and well, as women love good quality clothes on men. On the other hand women need to dress alluringly but not in a vulgar way.
- While talking with your female let your eyes do some movement - like at first- over his or her face, concentrating on their eyes.
- To impress, one need to share his or her convictions and show that how you feel them deeply. Watch his or her reactions, then show the same emotions - shock, disgust, humour, compassion, etc.
- whatever your love is discussing, simply ask her, "How do you feel about that?" Women love to talk about how they feel and will nearly always respond enthusiastically.
- make sure you laugh at jokes and, when in a group, be the first to laugh. It brings you closer together
- the ideal time to ask a woman for a date is when she has said something relevant to her personality. For example, if she says something spiritual, say that you'd love to hear more about that, perhaps over dinner.
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cheating ID housewife0815 or housewife081517-beware
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Posted:Sep 21, 2014 5:10 am
Last Updated:Oct 26, 2014 11:11 am
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I be friended with the ID-housewife0815 and now a new ID housewife 081517. the hubby talked to me very nicely. It looked like a gentleman. He even exchanged pictures of his wife. though i made it clear that I dont jump immediately to bed, he carried on with frndship as he liked such kind of person. However, when i started asking abt his wife, he started saying that his wife has gone to mothers home and we meet when she comes. i AGREED. He even started calling me in late night. we talked lots. but when her wife came after a month he started avoiding me and even abused me of POLICE CASE as he was not such person. Then i did some research of this person and FOUND HE WAS TELLING LIE ALL THE TIME.
WHEN I EXPOSED HIM HE SAID HIS WIFE IS PREGNANT AND NOW HE IS NOT INTO ALL THIS
THEN HOW COME STILL HE IS ONLINE AND BE FOOLING ALL
PLS BEWARE OF THIS id HOUSEWIFE081517
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Sometimes patience leads to frustation in this site.
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Posted:Aug 31, 2014 5:01 am
Last Updated:May 28, 2024 8:27 am
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Dear friends,
Despite lots of fake ppl, one fyn day i met 3 SEEMINGLY nice people.Though was contacted by the male counter parts, but it was pleasant that my patience was paying off and I was now talking to seemingly genuine ppl. They pressed for patience and continuing talks on other msnger service which I heartily accepted. They said that it would help knowing each other better. Slowly in 2 months it led to mobile no. exchange and talks continued on mobile but when ever, I asked for their wife, she would be found on tour or out of station but they would send some good snaps of their wife and would make me feel that all was ok and shortly would have a meeting. When it went to 5-6 months I asked for a meeting atleast in open. Then those cpl started avoiding me on the msnger and even avoided taking calls. They did not know that I knew their real identity and even their home address from their mobile number. I informed them in SMS that I knew them by giving subtle hints and asked them why they didn’t want to contact. They started saying don’t sent abusive sms or they go police. I said them to go to police.as it would help me and I said I am not abusing but telling me reason of their behaviour as I have reason to know it as THEY PLAYED WITH MY PRECIOUS TIME EVEN IN LATE NIGHTS.
ONE SUCH id IS – HOUSEWIFE0815
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Why do females/Cpls hide their real location/City
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Posted:Aug 3, 2014 4:23 am
Last Updated:Aug 31, 2014 5:02 am
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In recent 3-4 months, I am facing an ambiguous situation. I generally befriend a female/CPL who are near to me or the place where i may be going on short tour.
Till sometime earlier, I was getting real city location of the females/Cpls but in recent times u find giving them absurd locations which they have not visited even.
telling the real story that i met one cpl who had shown their location ARA, bihar and one showed Delhi. I befriended them as I am in Delhi and visit Patna Bihar often on tour. One of them gave me gtalk ID to talk further and another YM. it was good start and talks went on late nights which told my location even and when i asked their location they wud say would meet shortly.
when a meeting was fixed it was much to my surprise that the cpl which had written ara belonged to a small place in Rajasthan and didnot visit Bihar even. when i insisted how to meet they said ok sponsor and they will come my home and stay. and the dELHI GIRL BELONGED TO bhopal and surprised me by saying it was a mistake to hide themselves.
I am surprised why so. If one is here there is clear intention of fun. U can hide ur actual address which u shud but not atleast the city.
Hope people here understand things in right perspective.
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tired of money seekers
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Posted:Jun 29, 2014 5:50 am
Last Updated:Jul 5, 2014 7:57 am
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There is nothing wrong in this site but the problem is of the people who understand the value of this nice fun site. These days the site is becoming full of money seekers and the money demanded are for the reason which are hilarious. some of them i will point out. one cpl said they need money to maintain a standard visiting them and no beggars or street person visit them. another cpl said my wife is so tight that its like sale of virginity so need big amount to sale that virginity. another cpl said need a good amount of money to give it to my hubby so that he is not there when we enjoy.
some cpls said one more reason which is amusing that nothing is free in this world. since u r fucking my wyf and i am not fucking any female so to compensate give me money and that too a good amount so that i can have good drinks and food to remain away from it.
it bemuses me if such reasons are there then why they did join this nice fun site. I am worried these type of ppl may actually get the site repute down and may hinder ppl joining it.
its nothing personal. but i always feel the site is for pure fun and mutual fun after getting a comfort level. can money give the comfort level?????
if such then i think it would be amusing and too bad for the society and family too.
for single female and doing no work some requirement is understandable but for cpl i was astonished.
IT ASTOUNDED ME MORE AFTER PPL WRITE FALSE TESTIMONIALS ABOUT THEM. HOW CAN ONE WRITE SUCH FANCY TESTIMONIALS AFTER SEX WITH SUCH TYPE OF CPLS.
HOPE SANE THINKING ARRIVES.
WAITING PPL TO GIVE THEIR COMMENTS.
MANISH
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