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stealing second I feel stupid. The sweatshirt I wore had shoulder cut outs. He picked me up, we hit a taco truck and went back to his place. I'd been avoiding the in person meet the last three times he'd arranged and this last time I had no excuse. So I went for it. Air Force dude, seemed respectable and chill. PPPTTTFFFF this mother had 2 beers b4 I felt like I should leave. . . . the tacos sucked, he wouldn't keep his hands off me and when he returned to the unpermitted entry of his hands through the cutouts, even a moron could tell it was unwanted contact. FML. Then he kept touching my face. . . . I'm already insecure about my acne and geezus this dude! Thank God the next thing he said was I can take you home whenever your ready, I was sooooo ready. On the drive back He asked if I would go out with his again. A little scared I immediately said yes, then clarified in a public place. He messaged twice. I was short. There will not be another date. |
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Good for you. Sounds like a waste of your time 😉
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don't feel stupid. this guy probably thought that since he had you at his place that he may as well try for a handful. it's a pity the j/o didn't think to ask you first. 1. you would have had more respect for him, if he did and 2. you might have given him the green light. BUT even if you said no, no second base, he could have gotten some really good kisses out of it. that easily would've made another date a no brainer. he blew it, you didn't. you left at a good time. 2 beers? and his behaviour? not kosher. of course, who wants someone touching their face. i don't necessarily dig it either. most guys do NOT have clean nails/hands. you know they don't because some of the dick pics on here have dirty fingers holding it.
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1 post 10/7/2019 12:05 pm |
don't feel stupid. this guy probably thought that since he had you at his place that he may as well try for a handful. it's a pity the j/o didn't think to ask you first. 1. you would have had more respect for him, if he did and 2. you might have given him the green light. BUT even if you said no, no second base, he could have gotten some really good kisses out of it. that easily would've made another date a no brainer. he blew it, you didn't. you left at a good time. 2 beers? and his behaviour? not kosher. of course, who wants someone touching their face. i don't necessarily dig it either. most guys do NOT have clean nails/hands. you know they don't because some of the dick pics on here have dirty fingers holding it. +1 about the, virtually always nasty hands/fingernails that dudes are oblivious to. Funny how little emphasis Dads put on the importance of washing hands while their boys grow. I have always felt compelled to wash my dirty hands before touching my dick, out of respect for myself, then again after touching my dick, out of respect for others. Then again I was raised by a single mother and widowed grandmother, so I was luckier than most men.
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He sounds like a real genius. Someone with that little understanding of other people's feelings and boundaries is not someone anyone should waste time on or worrying about. Like the others said: don't feel stupid. Feel gypped, but learn (what to watch out for, etc.), and move on. You can do better.
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