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To condom or not to condom, that is the question...  

greatwhitestud78 45M
24 posts
8/22/2018 8:01 am
To condom or not to condom, that is the question...


I heard someone say once (yes a woman) that it isn’t the size of the ship or the motion of the ocean... but weather the captain can stay in port long enough for all the passengers to get off!

greatwhitestud78 45M
24 posts
8/22/2018 8:09 am

My personal thoughts... of course it FEELS better without!... duh!

And if you’re both looking for a quickie and she doesn’t mind a bit of a mess.... then rubber free it is!

But what if SHE wants to enjoy??? What if she doesn’t want to running down her leg and soaking her panties all day while she is at work?

A good thick quality rubber is going to dull some of the pleasure for him, no question about it... but I would NOT say that it takes all the fun out of it! And truthfully, there are plenty of occasions where it makes it a much better experience for both of you.... leading her her being, dare I say it, not just willing, but excited to jump into bed with you again!

I know that a condom definitely makes it easier for me to make sure she has time for multiple orgasms... something most women will appreciate. But even if it is just a quickie, most women that I have know have been grateful to be able to go back to work without have the evidence running down her leg or making a stickie mess out of her panties.

What do you think? Ladies, I would especially love to hear from you in this? Have my lovers been lying to me about this???


jackdestin8 46M

8/22/2018 8:13 am

I love without, but better safe then sorry


bitchkitty2017 71F

8/22/2018 8:19 am

I would say no they have not been lying... I sit in a wheelchair almost every day and how do you think I would feel about having to either wear a pad or change my panties more than normal ..? not much! and besides when men are on a sex site whos gonna believe they are not screwing their way through the alphabet? If women believe that you are not getting you some like you may say you are not then condom is a definitely yes !


seems6666 53F  
4838 posts
8/22/2018 8:22 am

I always play safe, especially with men off here!! If I was in a relationship I wouldn't use condoms, but anything else definitely, and would be worried if a man expected it.


blusea5 71M

8/22/2018 8:37 am

well if it were back on 70/80" never wore a condom-- but now its gotten to a point where u need to wear an inner tube for sex-------i still hate condoms--feels like taking a shower with your clothes on>>!


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
8/22/2018 8:50 am

Quite frankly, no condom no play. There's too much stuff getting passed around and showing a test paper doesnt mean you are "clean" cause some of the gems hibernate. Back in the late 60s- oh boy I am so lucky I didnt get some stuff- ignorance is not bliss-. No rubbers, no swimming

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greatwhitestud78 45M
24 posts
8/22/2018 9:48 am

Thank you to everyone so far!

One point I should have clarified on: this was intended for a “safe” relationship

Strangers, one night stands, casual, INTERNET partners, etc. should ALWAYS be rubbered up!


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
8/22/2018 10:44 am

When I'm in a committed relationship, and there is trust there, then yes, I'll forego the condom. Even that is after a time.

No matter if i meet someone on here, or just out in the world, I always wear a condom. Never had a STI, and I plan on keeping it that way.

Not to mention, did you see the article in the news today about a flesh eating STI, that just popped up in England. Ouch.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


luvgluv19 75M

8/22/2018 11:11 am

AIDS and HIV were once considered a problem to people of the same sex. It is now at epidemic proportions. BE SAFE. I keep a condom in my wallet at all times


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