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How long before you meet?  

NorthfieldGuy76 51M
59 posts
6/28/2019 7:45 am
How long before you meet?

How long do you need to talk / interact with someone before you're willing to meet with them in person?
One chat session
A couple of chat sessions
After talking to them over chat for a week
After talking to them over chat for a month
After I've seen their picture
Just not happening, ever.


HAMONMAN 64M
13128 posts
6/28/2019 8:28 am

Hi NorthfieldGuy

A little tip regarding blog posts.

If you want your posts to be visible to the blog community at large in the Recent Posts section of the main blog page, you must add the first comment after creating the post. Any type of comment will do - you can even use a photo if you like. This will trigger 'publication' of that post in the Recent Posts section of the main blog page where others can see it and then add their comments.

Otherwise only you, and any blog watchers or friends you have will see the post.

Hope this helps.

regards H


davao68 73M

6/28/2019 8:51 am

just went thru Northfield area- stopped at Flying J- slept in my truck on the way to Grand Marias- have realtives in Dundas/Northfield


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
6/28/2019 9:08 am

In my experiences here, subject to a couple exceptions . . . If you don’t get a local woman’s phone number within a couple days (a week max) of contact here you probably won’t end up meeting. If you don’t meet her within a week or so (2 weeks max) of getting her phone number you probably won’t end up meeting.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


Naughtypursuit 56F  
2766 posts
6/28/2019 9:18 am

    Quoting redrockrascal:
    In my experiences here, subject to a couple exceptions . . . If you don’t get a local woman’s phone number within a couple days (a week max) of contact here you probably won’t end up meeting. If you don’t meet her within a week or so (2 weeks max) of getting her phone number you probably won’t end up meeting.
You are still on my list to meet...and its years..

I have met after a few months of chatting, sometimes days, sometimes a week... never know when you reach that level.


seems6666 53F  
4838 posts
6/28/2019 9:36 am

I think that it's dependent on your interaction. I would chat for at least a week, sometimes more. I would add to that, that I'm not on here for a quick shag, and I always trust my gut with regards to intentions and safety.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
6/28/2019 9:50 am

    Quoting Naughtypursuit:
    You are still on my list to meet...and its years..

    I have met after a few months of chatting, sometimes days, sometimes a week... never know when you reach that level.
We need to work on the when and where thing.

Men and women are different here, besides the obvious differences; women are generally the ones who say yes/no to a guy and meet, while men are generally chasing. I also believe women need to feel a somewhat higher level of comfort before meeting.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
6/28/2019 11:05 am

If I wanted to meet the woman I'm chatting with, I'd set up that meeting to happen right now....never later.

If you wait for more than one chat session , you risk losing her interest. You always want to get her offline as soon as possible , especially if she is pretty. You should want to beat the online competition, and get your physical imprint on her mind as soon as possible.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
6/28/2019 11:07 am

    Quoting redrockrascal:
    We need to work on the when and where thing.

    Men and women are different here, besides the obvious differences; women are generally the ones who say yes/no to a guy and meet, while men are generally chasing. I also believe women need to feel a somewhat higher level of comfort before meeting.
She is no where near where you live... so "When" is likely never to happen. That's the downside of finding someone a ridiculous distance away.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
6/28/2019 11:58 am

    Quoting Heathen_G:
    If I wanted to meet the woman I'm chatting with, I'd set up that meeting to happen right now....never later.

    If you wait for more than one chat session , you risk losing her interest. You always want to get her offline as soon as possible , especially if she is pretty. You should want to beat the online competition, and get your physical imprint on her mind as soon as possible.
I have no doubt you are speaking from experience when you write “If you wait for more than one chat session , you risk losing her interest”. Your ability to interest women here is evident by their comments about you.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


FresnoWoman 53F
883 posts
6/28/2019 10:09 pm

Jrod_153, not cool. No way does flaking out warrant a beating.


Jrod_153 39M

7/2/2019 8:53 am

    Quoting FresnoWoman:
    Jrod_153, not cool. No way does flaking out warrant a beating.
I was figuratively speaking. They need a smack of common sense lol not gonna do that that is assault. I have met a few women on here. Some after 1 chat some after a few days. The last woman i talked to on here was 53 and we talked for at least 3 weeks straight . NEVER MET and she flaked off and isnt on the site anymore weird. I gave her my number too


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