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Fake and or Not?
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Fake and or Not? How can you tell? I get this asked to me quite a bit. To me there are two kinds of Fake Profiles.. 1) Fake ones that are stolen pics from other web sites. After all many of these sites including Lesbian Date Network does nothing to prevent anyone from copying pictures for their own use. I know of only one sex oriented site that you can not do this. I cannot mention what that site is.. but they do have special encoding that you cannot just copy a picture from a profile. Maybe there are more? 2) then there are the actual member that have no intention of meeting. They are on here for the attention only or by getting others to give points or even money by watching their videos. Maybe others are into that, which is fine.... but what about the ones that are messaging you.. you want to meet.. they may even give you a contact number but then it stops. I hear from men about this all the time happening to them. I tell them to be patient and not be discouraged. And yes I suppose that does happen with the females on here too. You can't tell if they are fake... not just by reading a profile. Perhaps by the pictures if there are any. Are they too professional looking? Are they older pictures that is obvious? But it is the interaction that says it all. If they want to message for more than a few days.. then sincerity should be questioned. After all how long does it take for woman to make up her mind if she wants to meet? It does not take me long at all to decide which is usually within a few messages... give them my number.. text some.. then have them call for us both to hear each other's voice.. etc. Why are people on here if they do not plan to hook up but yet their profiles state otherwise? It is not fair to those that are searching to hook up. A waste of time spent and frustration. If all they want is online chat then it should be in their profile! I am sure there are plenty of those on here that want only to chat or even do camming and not meet. Why lead others on? I have seen a few profiles that DO indicate all they want is to chat. I applaud them for their honesty and being up front. But to continue to message someone with all indications of meeting... then disappear on them.. or continue to putting them off with excuses ... well that is being a FAKE. I have had men disappear on me for whatever the reason. I just forget it and move on. Being who I am, I can do just that. But for many men it is not easy for them to just move on and forget. Many are discouraged and think this whole site is a fake. it is not. I believe that there are more REAL people wanting to hook up then there are fakes. But that is just my opinion. There truly are some great fun people on here!! Ones that do want to meet and will follow thru. You just have to be patient.. keep searching and not allow the fake ones to discourage you. Thanks for reading and I welcome any comment!! |
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Many are just too timid to actually make a connection, others are just here for the thrill of the fantasy of a great sexual encounter. Most are just voyeurs. "You have to kiss alot of frogs to find a princess"
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There are a lot of fakes on this site, that's a given, be it female, male, or couples. you have to weed through the garbage, so to speak and figure out who is what, and what is who. But then as you mentioned, there are people on here only to blog, chat, etc, with no intent of meeting anyone, which over all makes this a pretty good social networking site. just saying.
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Tender, I couldn't agree with you more in what you said. I was talking to a friend about this the other day. I look at things this way. I send an email they reply to it. After the second email I want to send a text message or call the woman. The reason is I don't believe in countless emails or texts. I prefer the phone so nothings gets lost in the conversation. If we hit it off then lets make plans to meet. I am honest in what I say in my profile why not be? Your only going to get caught and I believe that honesty is the best policy. If your part of a couple then say it, if you are married then say it. I don't want or need anyone someone's drama. We have two lives, and the second begins when we realise we have only one - Confucious
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I don't mind chatting, messaging a little or texting however I am a little reluctant to give out my # until I feel certain of meeting. I would much rather sit down over a cup of coffee and be able to look into one's eyes. The eyes will tell the truth. If one can not be honest with me I don't think that I could be comfortable in bed with them.
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agreed too many fakes
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There are tons of fakes on this site on top of that there are a lot of flakes, the flakes are the ladies acting as more than they are. The fakes tend to give themselves away when they start talking asking for money or use English improper, although the improper English is not a dead giveaway. I usually do what I've read on here that most do. I communicate via this site for a few messages than I ask them to go to KIK or email, if that goes well I usually go to the phone and try and put a voice to pics.
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It does drive me nuts at times the Couples or woman that act like they want to meet then come up with a dozen reasons why. They want more pictures, 40 things JUST came up, not sure if the Dog likes you, etc, etc. . So it is harder for guys on here. There are more guys than woman on here.
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