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Just When We Thought it Couldn't Get any Worse...
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Just When We Thought it Couldn't Get any Worse... We really thought that by posting out profile, saying what we were looking for, saying how much RUDENESS and being an asshat turns us off, we were making it easier for people to approach us. We were SOOOOOO wrong! We have found that people have no use for the profile in the blog. None. We will give the address to anyone who wants it- even though it is EASILY accessible - as it answers a multitude of questions. We still get the 'what are ya lookin for?" constantly. When directed to the blog, people don't even bother. One guy even said - "I'm too lazy to go read it - just tell me." Seriously. Too lazy to go read? And you want to impress with that line?? There there is the CONSTANT rudeness whenever we sign onto the messenger. We have had comments ranging from plain rude to downright nasty. It never ceases to amaze us why anyone would ever think that would be a turn on. Which is why the Mrs. REFUSES to chat anymore. Just refuses. She is tired of the classless morons. Figure it has to be the folks 'too lazy' to read the profile/blog and know that wouldn't work with us. Have to wonder - does it work with anyone??? Over the past few weeks we have come across a few people who were almost perfect - just what we were looking for. In two cases, went as far as setting up a coffee meeting to do a meet and greet thing. Neither one happened, and all contact has ceased. Both these folks seemed very interested, and both stated they really wanted to get to know us. So what happened? We don't know. What I do know is that instead of me having to go sit through "50 Shades' tonight, we would have probably been playing had the person kept the date. It seemed like such a good fit, only to fall apart. We are even having a rough time getting more than one sentence out of people who email us - even when we respond (and we respond to every email). We like to get to know folks (especially I do - I need a comfort level before the Mrs. gets involved) and she needs to know she is safe. One sentence tells us that we aren't worth the effort. And if we aren't worth the time to put together an email, we know we aren't going to see the effort during play. There are many things we would like to experience, and a few really fun surprises along the way for the folks we play with - if we can ever find the right folks! |
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Well my guess is that they most likely never attended to show up. They are most likely in a relationship or not the age they state. I have had the same problem with women on here. Chat agree to meet then POOF! they will not return a message. After being burned a couple of times, may I give you some advice. Before setting a date or M&G get a phone call from the other party. If they call that shows most likely they will show. Being a male it also weeds out the guys pretending to be women. You are in charge. Asking for more than a "lets meet" is not asking to much. Other couples I know have made a policy that the Husband meets the guys one on one first. With that being stated right from the start this should cut down on the lets do it right now crowd. One of the big things many guys do not understand on here is that the husband is there for safety and often to enjoy the show. There are great people on here. Sorry you are having such a hard time. Hope someone reads this and talks to you.
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Sorry but I had to chuckle just a little at your unfortunate experience. Plus, I just realized this morning that I could find your blog and respond. Only a standard member so I can't see your profile. Not real active here but find the same as you. I have no expectations here at all and now mostly come here to kill a bit of time and amuse myself. Women my age are very horny but too afraid to meet and rarely even chat ( you think that is frustrating ! ) and women younger have too many young guys to pick from so I'm too old for most. Interesting place though if you are really inclined.
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