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"Why Do You Want to See..."
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"Why Do You Want to See..." Recently in a conversation with someone in the lifestyle, I was asked "Why do you want to see someone else fuck your wife?" It took me by surprise, because to be honest I never thought about it as someone fucking P. I have always viewed it as seeing her pleasured, seeing her enjoy herself. Get and give pleasure, not just fuck. This question made it appear this guy viewed her as something to get himself off, a sex toy per say, and he was not concerned with her at all. As I will do, I analyzed the question and my immediate response. To me, this individual has just been ruled out as a potential playmate. Reason is - It appears to us that he was looking to just 'get fucked' rather that a mutually satisfying encounter. He also mentioned he was concerned with the number of orgasms he would experience, and how he would experience them. Not once did he seem to concerned with what P liked, other than he did mention - almost like an afterthought - that he 'loves eating pussy'. Don't get me wrong. If P wants to 'just get fucked', that is fine by me. But in all of our talks, that is not something she has ever expressed a desire or fantasy about. She has always talked about mutual pleasure. We have both had the experience of watching the other with someone else, and both enjoyed seeing each other please and get pleased. For us, it was all about seeing the pleasure. Now we are seeking a couple, where all four of us can connect. We want to watch each other enjoy themselves, and look forward to it. We did not take the decision lightly to seek out others to share our sex lives with, and we view it as a privilege to be included in theirs. I truly look forward to seeing P enjoy herself, and I will do what I can to make certain my partner does as well. Our thoughts is as long as everyone leaves happy, that is good! Also, if P ever does want to 'just get fucked' - I will look forward to helping make that happen! |
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Have to somewhat disagree- it is not about the 'more sexually satisfied' - pretty much have that aspect taken care of! LOL....for us, it is more about the adventure - the unknown - the thrill of the seduction, the having someone find us desirable/sexy, the letting go and enjoying the moment.
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Talkling to couples over the years I think you are like most other couples out there. Many find it exciting and enjoying to watch the other. Sometimes the husband may feel he is letting his wife be more sexually satisfied. Whatever the reason the result is the same. A lot of men do not understand why they can not be alone with a mans wife. Safety may play a part but its more that the husband enjoys watching the show.
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