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The Dilemma
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The Dilemma Recently our 'ladyfriend' (whom we have played with a few times) came to P and I and made a request. She would like a fantasy somewhat like the one I did for P, with some modifications. She wants to be blindfolded, be 'forced' to please and be pleased by a couple of people, men and women both. She told me she is Bi (however, she is hesitant at times with P) and she has this huge fantasy of being dp'ed while giving oral sex. She did tell me she got very excited by the thoughts of being 'made' to do things, and P and I thought it sounded like a lot of fun for everyone involved! Since there is only two of us, this is going to require some assistance. When she asked me for this, she also made a request that I would make her safety a priority, the same as I would of P. Not a problem at all with that. Therein lies the problem. We have been unable to find a single (not married) nonsmoking nice easygoing(no 'bulls' or 'alpha male' types) Caucasian guy between the ages of 30-45. Both women have requested younger guys, and to me that shouldn't be a problem. But it is. Either they are married (definitely a no) or they 'don't smoke that often' - again a no. Or, and this seems to be a sticking point, they don't come across as a nice guy. One did, then stood me up! (So I am guessing married????)Remember, you only get one chance to make a good impression..... This other issue would be another couple. We have also had issues here finding a couple where all four of us click. The smoking issue raises it's ugly head a lot. It's not that we just don't like smoke, he can't tolerate it at all - even on clothing. In the above fantasy, the focus would be on her at one point, but the idea is to make very certain that all participants have their needs met. We are seeking folks who will be able to help, be flexible, like to laugh, clean discreet and have a relaxed time. I know what she wants, and I will take a long as I need to make it happen. Now, anybody have any ideas on how to find the right folks? Because I'm all out! Thoughts? Anybody? |
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Sounds to me your lady friend was a submissive(bondage) and if this is so you might of needed a Dom/Bull type. Not all of them are bad, some do understand the lifestyle and can take charge with limits and understanding. Also a idea since its hard to find the single guy is too find a couple where the female likes to watch leaving the male to play(as a single) while the wife is there. I could go on with many different type of session play for this 1 but I wont.
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Take your time, sounds like you are seeking a quality experience. The wider you cast your net the better the chances are to find what you are seeking. Try another site too it may help with your search.
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