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Blogs > thegrlsnme > Thoughts from a late bloomer

does anybody want more than sex  

thegrlsnme 67F
2769 posts
12/27/2013 11:33 am
does anybody want more than sex

I realize this is a known sex site. But I also know that even though we like our playtime, some of us are looking for more than sex. I know I am not the only one looking for ltr, it just seems like everybody wants something else, so I have been going fwb. That is great, but it lacks what I am want.

One could say it is the site, but men on the other sites seem to be looking for the sex as well, they just dress it a lil differently.

Sometimes I feel like a lost puppy out here. Maybe I should give up the playtime all together.

Good luck in your search on here. thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
jerr51 63M
2050 posts
12/27/2013 11:56 am

 youre not alone in your feelings.I too have a FWB situation which is fine.But am looking for more and have more then just sex.Sex is great but when you are sharing life with someone it makes the making love better.have met some nice people here and Lesbian Date Network seems like strange place to find ltr,but feel people are more truthful here for what they are really seeking.Keep hanging in there I know you will find what you seek


d0gdaize 67M
375 posts
12/27/2013 1:32 pm

 if you ask me, and don't get me wrong, there is more than just sex. I see the problem from the perspective that we are in a fast pace society and some men just don't want to take the time and know a woman first, without " sampling" the goods. It's sad because who knows.... there could be good relationships developed if only we could slow down to ... as the perverbial saying goes ... " smell the roses ". I for one loves sex. I mean.. LOVES sex..... but that said, I also need to know her, see how she ticks, how she feels, what she thinks and I also NEED the passion. I want to feel completely whole with her and vice versa. The sex will come in time. I say , you don't make it a focus to a relationship and things would be so much better. This is just my 2 cents worth but glad you brought it up thegrls. Shame you don't live closer, I would offer you dinner.


jerr51 63M
2050 posts
12/27/2013 8:41 pm
    Quoting  :
very well said and a great point


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
12/30/2013 12:40 pm

 It's not that I don't have people knocking, it's just I look for quality versus quantity, and that can be a lil disappointing sometimes. I think it goes back to my quote on my profile. You have to have 2 people that are attracted to each other looking for the same thing as the same time.

thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


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