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What a nice guy Sometimes I have conversations like this on dating apps and I don't know why I continue replying to people like this, as opposed to ignoring them. In this case, I really brought it on myself with the questions I asked him. But wow, this guy is just incredible. He seems to have no common sense in picking up women. I mean, I already know that a lot of guys see me this way. It's nothing new to me and I don't need to be reminded. To be honest I wouldn't date this guy either. For one thing, I question his IQ level. Secondly, I don't know what we would have in common besides food and sex. But this still hurts my feelings, since no guys want to date me. It's not just guys like him. But this is the conversation I had on POF today: Colby_kusy 4/3/2016 10:48:15 PM Hey looking for some fun are you fun? xdrearydancerx 4/4/2016 2:13:32 PM Sounds like you are looking for sex and if you are you should not put on your profile that you are looking for a relationship. Colby_kusy 4/4/2016 3:22:17 PM I'm looking for both lol Colby_kusy 4/4/2016 3:24:38 PM But I probably wouldn't be your bf if I'm being honest don't mind what I stick myself in but do mind who I'm gonna spend a relationship on xdrearydancerx 4/4/2016 3:48:38 PM Because I am different from you or I am low quality/embarrassing? Colby_kusy 4/4/2016 3:52:43 PM I mean the goth stuff would make u kinda cool to fool around with. But all the goth stuff and ur bigger probably wouldn't date you xdrearydancerx 4/4/2016 3:54:16 PM Oh yes, of course because I'm fat. Thanks. Colby_kusy 4/4/2016 3:55:39 PM Well yes you are is it wrong for me to want my gf or significant other to be thinner Colby_kusy 4/4/2016 4:03:57 PM And it's not just the weights it's also all the goth stuff I don't always wear all black it would look weird when we are out xdrearydancerx 4/4/2016 7:18:08 PM It's actually very insulting to message women you don't find attractive because you think they are easy and they will take anything. Colby_kusy 4 /4/2016 7:19:29 PM I find you attractive enough to fool around just not be my gf Colby_kusy 4/4/2016 7:26:30 PM And don't no why your complaining especially on your about me you say to message you even if it's to tell you how gross, fat, pathetic you are. Sorry I assumed you were desperate xdrearydancerx 4/4/2016 10:51:21 PM Wow, I am wildly impressed that you missed the obvious sarcasm in my profile. What I was trying to say is that some people message me not to hook up or anything but just to be mean to me. I was just pointing out that a lot of people online are very rude. Colby_kusy 4/4/2016 10:52:35 PM Didn't read your profile just saw it at the bottom. And I'm sorry people treat you bad that sucks Colby_kusy 4/4/2016 10:55:53 PM And sorry if I hurt your feelings I was just trying to get some ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Also, a couple of weeks ago, I chatted with some creepy guy one evening. I did not like his tone.....even if it is texting and I shouldn't be able to tell. I just found him very boring and unfriendly. I was very direct with him and I told him that I knew he was just looking for sex. He denied it. After that he told me he had a dry spell and that he hadn't had sex for a year. He sent me a nude photo and then he invited me over to his house and it was past 12 am. I told him maybe some other time if he asks me in advance. I received other texts from him later that week and he told me that he was free all weekend to fuck. I had just stopped texting him after the first day and ignored him. Why didn't that guy just admit he was only looking for sex with me? I mean what the hell with the rest of the texts he sent. Of course that is all he wanted. Also, if you are telling a woman that you have a dry spell, it seems like you are desperate and think she is easy. This is a little insulting. This guy wasn't even nice to talk to. I know I'm not friendliest person but when I meet a new guy I like, whether it's to hookup or go on a date, I am very friendly and enthusiastic with them. He thinks I will want to have sex with him with the kind of approach he is making? What's so hard about saying, "I think you are sexy. We should get drinks sometime and have fun"? This guy is an idiot. Of course, I'm not against casual sex. I've been on this site for years. But it kind of bothers me in a lot of ways. When people only want sex with you and never want to date you, it gets old after so many years. |
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I can't believe that guy, he must be 4 to 5 cans shy of a six-pack. that is absolutely not the way to talk to any woman. I really hope you blocked that dickweed, i'm almost really speechless on this.
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Mariam, Your Beautiful & quite insightful reading between the lines with the Freaks & Geeks that are on line anymore! Don't let the Dumb Asses bring you down! Your a Sweet Person & if You didn't live all the way down in Katy Texas! I would definitely be interested in You!! Drive on My Friend & stay your Sweet self! Have a Wonderful Week in Katy! Love As Always, Coyote_23
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Sadly you attract these wastes of oxygen by putting yourself down.I don't care if it is sarcastic or not,You need to stop doing it.You're wasting the best years of your life.Start treating yourself as a precious piece of art.It is much more attractive!Trust me. Using more than all the road!
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I have a slightly different view to most of the comments here, particularly those saying "that's no way to talk to a woman" - which is a bit sexist if you think about it... It can be argued that that is no way to think about another human being - "good enough to fuck, but not acceptable as a partner" doesn't come across as a pleasant attitude to have about anyone. However, at least he's up front about it. Maybe lacking in common sense, maybe unpleasant for thinking he should say it, maybe stupid to think that he could say it, but that's a different matter. Wouldn't it be far worse if he were to lie? There's plenty of silver-tongued charmers about who would think exactly the way he did, but know that such an approach is unlikely to get into your knickers. There's married men who will lie to their partners, themselves and their prey in order to get a fuck. There's plenty of men and women who say they are interested in a long term relationship but really just want to get laid. There's also people who think that they might want a relationship, might have convinced themselves of this, but who baulk at the opportunity - after having tried out "the goods". And there's plenty of self-styled "good guys" who would never talk to a woman like that (and hurry to point it out) but who do still think about women in such a way.
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