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Women: How many people do you have on your Blocked List?  

community 38F   
9221 posts
5/21/2010 4:10 pm
Women: How many people do you have on your Blocked List?

On of our product designers asked me how many people the average woman has on her blocked list. I had no idea. I said 5 to 10, but that was a straight up guess.

Just as an informal survey, how many people do you have on your blocked member list? I'm sure I could ask our database team to run the numbers, but I want to know among us.

I have two, both blocked from my blog - but I'm a guy so I don't count.
0
1 to 5
5 to 10
10 to 20
20 to 50
50 to 100
100+


rm_InnerPeace07 36F
4536 posts
5/21/2010 4:41 pm

I have 51, but that's over 4 years and collected from all areas of the site..

And I'd heard 100 names was our blocking max...?

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PerpetoMobile13 67F
3218 posts
5/21/2010 5:24 pm

I do have two profiles and on both together they are around 100 blocked members

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LadyUnlaced 49F
34177 posts
5/21/2010 5:27 pm

I still wish we could block them from viewing our profile/pictures though. Imagine you are being harassed by someone, wouldn't it bother you to know they are probably jerking off to your pictures?

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roxy54sexy 61F
8914 posts
5/21/2010 8:23 pm

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CuteAndNormal 58M/57F
390 posts
5/21/2010 8:35 pm

As a couple, we didn't vote, but we were curious so we counted.

We have 10,409 members blocked, practically all for being iggied in chat.

We'eve only been here 15 months, so that's roughly 690 per month or 23 a day.

We ignore bots, spammers, and Spanish speakers. How many Spanish speakers can there be in the world?

P.S. We strongly suspect that the size of our iggy list is what prevents Flash chat from loading for us.

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stevenjosepht 78M
3726 posts
5/21/2010 8:55 pm

I still think blocking is a sign of intolerance. But then, I'm a guy who would put up with a lot of non sense. And I would treat humourosly something that might be outre.

I have been blocked by women--and all I can say is good riddance to bad garbage. They couldn't read, couldn't think...they took umbrage where none was intended. They read into something that wasn't there and then upbraided me for what they read into... Like I say: good riddance to bad garbage!


rdy2try4 59F  
3330 posts
5/21/2010 11:16 pm

I have over 110... and I have gone through and deleted all those that are no longer on the site so that is an accurate number of active members blocked. They are blocked from emails, flirts/invites, and writing testimonials.


rm_NassyFox 62F
37014 posts
5/22/2010 6:52 am

I am one of the few that has zero members blocked in any way. On the odd occasion, I will block someone in chat, but I usually reverse it the next day.

In the past, I had blocked bots when they were commenting on my blog. Once, I did block a member who was abusive and just couldn't stop writing me. That was long ago and I eventually took them all off.


loveforelorn 49F
38 posts
5/22/2010 12:07 pm

I don't have many (9). Most are from camming and when warned, continued to be abusive. One was recording my cam show (I know it happens more often than that). One kept sending me email after email when I politely said I wasn't looking. This is from the end of Nov. 09 til now

You asked


rm_trainmepls1 53F
717 posts
5/22/2010 1:07 pm

I have 3 blocked. One was for being abusive in an email, but he's no longer on the site. The other 2 are because they haven't read my profile or my autoreply and keep sending me endless nuisance emails. They're only blocked from sending emails though. I don't have anyone blocked in groups or chat.


rm_a704guy 48M
55 posts
5/22/2010 8:14 pm

So um, why doesn't my "blocked member list" show up under the drop down menu "My Lists?" We have to click on My Account to get there.


givit2me999 61F

5/23/2010 9:08 am

I have 4 blocked and that's over a period of 4 years of me being on this site. I'm sure many others could go on the list but why bother? It takes a whole lot for me to block someone. The rest I just ignore.


buxombbw4u 56F
16144 posts
5/23/2010 3:11 pm

Thousands. Almost all from the chat rooms. And I don't consider myself to be intolerant. I iggy the following people:

1. bots.
2. spammers.
3. spanish speakers
4. men who cut and paste the same line repeatedly... usually something like "big cock on cam, with audio"
5. those that abuse or call me names making chat unbearable if I don't. (and all of their "alter-egos"... idiots aren't very bright)
6. those that spam blogs
7. those that send me emails about wanting to watch me fuck animals or something else that I consider to be beyond the pale.

I think that's about it. The rest I just mentally ignore. And no, I am not intolerant. LOL

It would be very helpful if inactive members' names automatically disappeared off that list, btw. I bet it would cut it in half, just getting rid of the bots and spammers that you have caught and eliminated.

2022... it HAS be better, right?!


wildnwv1957 66F
25 posts
5/23/2010 9:11 pm

I don't have anyone blocked. I have only ever blocked one person. a troll named voteman13. He called mentally challenged people retarded and when I ranted about it he called me retarded and hell yeah, I blocked him. I later unblocked him.


rdy2try4 59F  
3330 posts
5/25/2010 6:53 am

For those that are questioning this (I have had a few messages from men AND women asking me what on Earth are these people talking about with the mean and derogatory messages or not being able to take a no thank you)... here are some blogs ABOUT those types of messages. YES... WE DO get slammed for what are profiles say i.e. "who do you think you are to be so picky?" or "this is a sex site b*tch" as well as if we say POLITELY "no thank you" we suddenly ARE bombarded with hateful and vulgar 'fat/ugly' comments because we said no.

#1...Best Complimentary Emails wupdates
#2...Emailslame, boring, or just plain stupidwupdates
#3...A polite No Thank You can cause thiswupdates
#4...Unsolicited HATE Emails no prior contactwupdates

Feel free to read them... UNDERSTAND.. and I hopefully EVERYONE will benefit from this. GOOD MEN on this site are being lost in the mess that these types of messages cause. THERE ARE good men and women on here, but unfortunately the internet does cause people to be 'braver' than they would if someone was meeting them in person.


rm_s_e_rath 66F
744 posts
5/26/2010 1:52 pm

Just as an informal survey, how many people do you have on your blocked member list?

12: all from either having met the blockee, had a extremely rude email, or had an improper blog posting.



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liberty13712 53F
21 posts
5/27/2010 12:36 am

6 and 5 of those are spam bots that got annoying advertising another site every few minutes

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rm_louis252006 43M

7/12/2010 6:13 am

none


MsTrue1 69F
227 posts
8/31/2010 11:30 am

i block rude ppl ... mostly their from the chatrooms and when i'm on my cam they think they have ownership , become obnoxious and/or abusive so they just gotta go

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EbonyBabydoll22 39F

9/1/2010 2:48 pm

I block rude mofos and fakes who claim to wanna play and find lame ass excuses not to lol

XOXO

Monique Lynae


EbonyBabydoll22 39F

9/2/2010 11:49 am

I have almost 30 people on my blocked list lol I have no patience for rude and fake people what can I say LMFAO!

XOXO

Monique Lynae


magnaotter F
4037 posts
9/4/2010 1:13 pm

I block anyone who is rude to me (according to my standards, which I state *very* clearly) while I'm camming. I usually give a verbal warning before blocking; if the behavior continues or if they respond with insults, I block them.

I've blocked a few people who have left rude/abusive comments (about me or others) on my blog, and one guy who insisted on spamming my blog with large photos of his dick (which, being standard, I didn't know about until another poster informed me - not being able to see photos others post on your blog is absurd). Differing viewpoints are welcomed, abuse is not.

The total is well over a hundred by now, though I suspect many of these members aren't members anymore.

I don't believe in tolerating abusive or rude behavior in any forum - tolerating the behavior encourages it, in my view. If every woman blocked every man who was abusive/rude to her* (or another) from watching her cam - I'm willing to bet the repeat behavior would be greatly reduced.

*without explicit invitation - I understand some people like this, and that's perfectly fine. The site provides spaces and rooms for that, and it's completely fine between consenting adults. *I* don't consent to it, and I don't tolerate it.


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