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Blogs > reallyready46 > Ramblings of a middle aged man

Feet in two places  

reallyready46 64M
531 posts
8/1/2012 11:40 pm
Feet in two places

I was chatting with a woman on here the other night. We started to talk abouit feeling like you have two sides of yourself. One a G rated the other R or X depending what you are after. We both agreed that it feels like living in two worlds at times.

So does anyone else feel this way too? I want to be honest with people. I read a funny joke on here I say someone sent it to me. People start to talk about sexual topics I try to correct misinformation to a point and say that others have told me things.

Not sure what stops me from just saying I am on here. Fear? shame? Privacy? I think a little of all those. I just like my life to be my life. It does make me feel like I have feet planted in two places.

reallyready46 64M
1383 posts
8/6/2012 11:17 pm
    Quoting ClydeCouple2:
    oh we so love those type of people. cause we cramp hypocrisy back down their throats.
I would love to but then they go crying they are picked on.


ClydeCouple2 53M/52F
709 posts
8/6/2012 10:02 pm
    Quoting reallyready46:
    See its that kinda thing that bothers me. I work with a couple of born again guys, so the crap that would be said from them would be enough of a hassle.
oh we so love those type of people. cause we cramp hypocrisy back down their throats.
Bill and June
Make sure you check out our Lesbian Date Network blogs -->> ClydeCouple2


reallyready46 64M
1383 posts
8/4/2012 9:21 am
    Quoting ClydeCouple2:
    We agree with btdt2009...our family and most of out friends know we are lifestyles. We don't hide, and we don't deny it if asked. We dont openly broadcast it either.

    That being said, I can certainly see what reallyready46 is talking about. There are some people you do not want to know your business cause you fear the repercussions it will have.

    The two biggest fears that most people have is loss of job and attaching that one person that just will not take no for an answer.

    Personally we think the latter one is the bigger threat, we have seen the first one happen only two. One was a part time cop, the other was in the military. There was much advise we could offer the one in the military, cause the military has it own rules and such. The cop who got fire, we advised them to sue for sexual discrimination.
See its that kinda thing that bothers me. I work with a couple of born again guys, so the crap that would be said from them would be enough of a hassle.


ClydeCouple2 53M/52F
709 posts
8/4/2012 4:50 am

 We agree with btdt2009...our family and most of out friends know we are lifestyles. We don't hide, and we don't deny it if asked. We dont openly broadcast it either.

That being said, I can certainly see what reallyready46 is talking about. There are some people you do not want to know your business cause you fear the repercussions it will have.

The two biggest fears that most people have is loss of job and attaching that one person that just will not take no for an answer.

Personally we think the latter one is the bigger threat, we have seen the first one happen only two. One was a part time cop, the other was in the military. There was much advise we could offer the one in the military, cause the military has it own rules and such. The cop who got fire, we advised them to sue for sexual discrimination.
Bill and June
Make sure you check out our Lesbian Date Network blogs -->> ClydeCouple2


reallyready46 64M
1383 posts
8/3/2012 1:05 am
    Quoting btdt2009:
    My close friends know I'm on here. Some of my ex-coworkers did too. I'm not ashamed or embarassed to be on here. I just don't broadcast it to the world, but I don't share a lot of other things either.
I am open about my sex, just not open about being on here. Just do not want the questions and or judgemental critics.


btdt2009 57F  
1466 posts
8/2/2012 3:12 pm

 My close friends know I'm on here. Some of my ex-coworkers did too. I'm not ashamed or embarassed to be on here. I just don't broadcast it to the world, but I don't share a lot of other things either.


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