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ARE YOU AWARE OF THE FIRST IMPRESSION YOU MAKE ON PEOPLE ?  

stardust81937 87M
4345 posts
6/7/2016 1:43 am
ARE YOU AWARE OF THE FIRST IMPRESSION YOU MAKE ON PEOPLE ?
Do you have any clue on how you effect people when you first meet them?

Your height, your weight, the way you carry yourself, the color and length of your hair, the whiteness of your teeth, the clothes you wear, your eye color, and sort of glasses if you wear them. Even the color and style of your shoes say things about you.

And then... as soon as you open your mouth, your voice has a powerful influence on
other people...it's pitch, and loudness or softness, your regional accent, your vocabulary.

WHERE you decide to meet someone says things about you too. Do you choose loud bars or restaurants with plenty of music and noise to meet? Or--are you like me, and want to meet a new person in a quiet place over--my preference--black coffee? Do you want to meet in a place where you can quietly talk and discover a little about the other person, or are you not into talking that much, and use other clues to tell you about the person--like the things I've listed above?

If you're meeting someone for the first time for a possible sexual encounter, do you skirt the issue of sex, or do you come right out with what you want from the person in the sexual department? Does a person who smokes turn you off? (It does me!)...

It's just me, but I nearly always ask a new person if they like animals, and especially if they like dogs ?

Do you always FEEL a new person's chemistry when you meet them? Do they have Charisma? Can you sense people who have a lot magnetism?

Can you visualize making out with this new person? Does the thought of it turn you on? Do you reach out and touch the person in a casual way when you first meet them? Do they draw away from your touch?

I once was in a Walmart store about 30 miles from my place during the hottest part of summer. I had a strong craving for cashew nuts, and found where Walmart stocked them and reached out for a big container of the nuts. Without having seen her, a woman a few years younger than I was at that time, sort of whispered in my ear--she was very close to me--"Oh I just love nuts...."

The woman was so magnetic for me, that we ended up in her Van, with the A/C on, behind tinted windows, eating nuts, and in a short time making out with each other and then.... eating each other.

First encounters have always been fun for me. A person can never tell how the meeting will turn out, and that's one of the things I find really exciting.

by david stardust....Tuesday morning...June 7, 2016...
stardust81937 87M
8340 posts
6/8/2016 9:01 pm
    Quoting silk_petal_rose:
    David never would I be sarcastic or make fun of you.. i was truly answering your questions, comments.
I'm really sorry Smoothness that I thought you were " punching out my lights. "
I've always been such a horny person that T thought everyone felt the vibes coming for other people. Whenever I meet someone new, I wonder how they'd be in the sex department, and it surprises me that other's don't feel that way too. Thanks for clarifying my mistake in what you were writing... david


stardust81937 87M
8340 posts
6/8/2016 8:53 pm
    Quoting Heathen_G:
    If you're meeting someone for the first time for a possible sexual encounter, do you skirt the issue of sex,

    Meeting a woman, from a sex site, or a vanilla site, a "Sexual encounter" is the entire reason for meeting with her anyway. [If you're able].

    Meeting her from a vanilla site, then , "Yes", skirt the issue.

    Meeting her from a sex site, then, go ahead and jump in with the issue. She knows she has a profile on a sex site.

    Do you always FEEL a new person's chemistry when you meet them? [/U] ... Yes, absolutely. Always. If you can't sense the important one, "Sexual chemistry", get up and leave. You would be wasting your time.
I agree with you on both these things, H. Regarding the sexual chemistry, like you, I always pick up on that. Sometimes I even pick up on that chemistry when I just stand next to a person in a supermarket line..


stardust81937 87M
8340 posts
6/8/2016 8:45 pm
    Quoting Heathen_G:
    Can you visualize making out with this new person?

    That is the primary important question.

    When men invite a woman out, he already decided that answer is, "Yes".

    Now the woman has to put it all together, if she thinks , "No", but goes out with him anyway, she is stupid, and probably just looking for a sucker to feed her a free meal.
Very true H. Some women and I suppose men too, are experts at stringing an interested person along, just to play a game with them or to see what they can "get " out of them..


silk_petal_rose 60F  
2363 posts
6/8/2016 6:20 pm

 David never would I be sarcastic or make fun of you.. i was truly answering your questions, comments.
silky...


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
6/8/2016 3:48 pm

 If you're meeting someone for the first time for a possible sexual encounter, do you skirt the issue of sex,

Meeting a woman, from a sex site, or a vanilla site, a "Sexual encounter" is the entire reason for meeting with her anyway. [If you're able].

Meeting her from a vanilla site, then , "Yes", skirt the issue.

Meeting her from a sex site, then, go ahead and jump in with the issue. She knows she has a profile on a sex site.

Do you always FEEL a new person's chemistry when you meet them? [/U] ... Yes, absolutely. Always. If you can't sense the important one, "Sexual chemistry", get up and leave. You would be wasting your time.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
6/8/2016 3:34 pm

 Can you visualize making out with this new person?

That is the primary important question.

When men invite a woman out, he already decided that answer is, "Yes".

Now the woman has to put it all together, if she thinks , "No", but goes out with him anyway, she is stupid, and probably just looking for a sucker to feed her a free meal.


stardust81937 87M
8340 posts
6/8/2016 12:32 am
    Quoting  :
I'm not quite sure what you're saying here, but thanks for your comment anyway, PurpleWine.....


stardust81937 87M
8340 posts
6/8/2016 12:01 am
    Quoting silk_petal_rose:
    hmmmmmmmm interest ,how you really had nothing to say to my reply to your questions.
I figured you were just being sarcastic and making fun of me....


silk_petal_rose 60F  
2363 posts
6/7/2016 8:10 pm

 hmmmmmmmm interest ,how you really had nothing to say to my reply to your questions.
silky...


stardust81937 87M
8340 posts
6/7/2016 6:33 pm
    Quoting silk_petal_rose:
    Do you always FEEL a new person's chemistry when you meet them? Do they have Charisma? Can you sense people who have a lot magnetism?

    >>I never feel a persons chemistry,,if a new person i meet has charisma, i wouldn't know it. lol no to magnetism<<<

    Can you visualize making out with this new person? Does the thought of it turn you on? Do you reach out and touch the person in a casual way when you first meet them? Do they draw away from your touch?

    >hahaha no never something I even think about,>why would it turn me on? I never think of it.. nope never reach out and touch in a casual way a person i've just met,
Thanks for leaving a comment....I think.


silk_petal_rose 60F  
2363 posts
6/7/2016 4:04 pm

 Do you always FEEL a new person's chemistry when you meet them? Do they have Charisma? Can you sense people who have a lot magnetism?

>>I never feel a persons chemistry,,if a new person i meet has charisma, i wouldn't know it. lol no to magnetism<<<

Can you visualize making out with this new person? Does the thought of it turn you on? Do you reach out and touch the person in a casual way when you first meet them? Do they draw away from your touch?

>hahaha no never something I even think about,>why would it turn me on? I never think of it.. nope never reach out and touch in a casual way a person i've just met,
silky...


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