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Am I Reading This Right?
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Am I Reading This Right? You know, I so rarely get mail since moving. Yes, once in a great while there's one worth answering, most aren't even worth mentioning here. Hate mail has fallen off to zero, which really amazes me considering how much I got up north. But every once in a while, I get one that makes my brain want to explode. Yesterday was one of those days. Now, it just might be the raging hormones and cramps that caused this to get to me. Or this guy could just be a raving idiot. I'll let you decide. hello Ann, I am very interested in you. If you have sex is it just for your own pleasure? have you ever thought that you should have been a man/think you were in a previous life? have you ever made love to a female? are you touchy feely? or only in privacy of home..well if at all interested let me know...huggs Now wait a minute... If a woman feels she should get something from sex other than being used as a collection of holes, she should have been born a man? What sort of fucked up thinking is that? Or am I reading too much into this? This is the response I wanted to send him, but held back: Hi. I have to ask. Are you a complete idiot? Women aren't allowed to have sex for their own pleasure and if a woman cares about being satisfied, she was obviously a man in a previous life? What sort of fucked-up antediluvian thinking is that? Are all you men in this godforsaken state so backwards that you still consider women nothing but the sum of her holes for your own pleasure? It's men like you that make me pray to every single God and Goddess out there every day that I return to NYC sooner than later and get out of this Baptist infested hellhole where there is no respect or care for women. As a matter of fact, men with your attitude don't want women. You want free hookers. Sorry, but if you want someone to use just for the sum of her holes, there are a number of shops in this town where you can buy the blow-up doll of your dreams. Oh, that's right. You're probably one of these losers who thinks that's paying for sex. So the hookers on 11th St. are out too, I guess. It's time for you to come out of the 1950s and step into the 1970s. Women have been liberated. We are allowed to have sex for our pleasure. Your orgasm is not our orgasm. I'd suggest the next time you write to someone with an IQ over 80 (which I'm sure is where yours is,) you might want to learn to read, so you can read her profile and not send such antiquated drivel. Or at least get voice software that can read it for you. So you don't have to tax your little blond brain, cupcake. OK. Being it is that time of month, I do have a tendency to fly off the handle. I'm in abject agony and Advil isn't helping. So, after asking a few friends, I was advised not to send that. Mind you, this isn't the first time he's written to me since I got here. He doesn't remember me spanking him the last time. I also know from the roomie and a few months ago when this guy wrote, that he's on all the other popular dating sites too, where he has profiles that claim he's not a guy who acts the way he did in this email. I have seen his profiles on Match and POF. I doubt he writes to straight women on there asking if they dig chicks. So instead, I just sent him this: Hello doc, I really do think you're overtaxing your little blond brain here. Why do you think a woman who doesn't want to be used as the sum of her holes for someone else's pleasure should have been born a man? What sort of antediluvian thinking is that, cupcake? If you had bothered to read the chart, you would see that I'm straight. So why would you ask if I dig chicks? What about you? A bit of repressed homosexuality going on there? Have you ever gotten on your knees and sucked dick while a woman watched and jerked off? Rough trade in the park to make the threat of discovery more dangerous? One of those fake straights, who's worried about being kicked out of the congregation, are you? Sorry, but as you seem to be looking for nothing but notches in the bedpost, I'd advise you to look elsewhere. I'm not a fucktoy to fulfill the fantasies of anyone who asks. I'm a woman with a mind and an IQ in the mid-triple digits. My great grandmother was a suffragette and the entire concept of women are humans and not things predates women's liberation in my family. But good luck finding the mindless June Cleaver of your dreams. MissAnn Yeah, I'm sure it's still a bit strong, but I'm also sure it gets the point across. Now watch. It will turn out he's into forced femme to the point of giving blow-jobs to men to please his Mistress. That would be just my luck.  |
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1/2/2008 1:41 pm |
Poor emasculated blond - I suspect he was simply asking you a series of non-connected questions, hoping to engage your interest in any one of them. Poor lad is probably ready to garrot himself at any moment.  Blogito ergo sum.
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ROFLMAO.. Ohh this is priceless. Lately the idiot factor is off the scale on here.. could it be the holidays? WELCOME BACK!! I must say, Fantasy has some fury says about the same thing. I know quite a few men and women posting about this same behavior right now. I am so confused as to why this happens... I will never know...I am lost.. I need a map. roflmao The list of these in my blog Rdy's Info Blogs doesn't even offer up anything other than *you are not alone* and *guys.. this is why women are not answering your emails*. Unfortunately the GOOD suffer due to the bad. I sure HOPE I wasn't a guy in another life. I ENJOY my life and sex, and I am not doing it as a job. But to be so lost as to send that kind of .. uh.. yeah.... please don't make me come back as that in another life!!!
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1/2/2008 2:58 pm |
I really don't think he's a machista looking to fuck every hole. I just think he wants to know just how sexual you are and wanted to know if you like girls, he just doesn't know how to ask... I just think it's a question of him not being too smart...you were way too hard on him.   ***tee  hee***
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Poor emasculated blond - I suspect he was simply asking you a series of non-connected questions, hoping to engage your interest in any one of them. Poor lad is probably ready to garrot himself at any moment.
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ROFLMAO.. Ohh this is priceless. Lately the idiot factor is off the scale on here.. could it be the holidays? WELCOME BACK!! I must say, Fantasy has some fury says about the same thing. I know quite a few men and women posting about this same behavior right now. I am so confused as to why this happens... I will never know...I am lost.. I need a map. roflmao The list of these in my blog Rdy's Info Blogs doesn't even offer up anything other than *you are not alone* and *guys.. this is why women are not answering your emails*. Unfortunately the GOOD suffer due to the bad. I sure HOPE I wasn't a guy in another life. I ENJOY my life and sex, and I am not doing it as a job. But to be so lost as to send that kind of .. uh.. yeah.... please don't make me come back as that in another life!!! I hold nothing against the good men. A few have written, but haven't been my type. I just tell them good luck in their search, I hope they find what they're looking for. But when they decide that by virtue of my being on whatever site they're signing in through that I'm looking for exactly what they are, I get annoyed. I did enjoy calling him cupcake and all of that. I will admit that I love putting the shoe on the other foot.
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Actually, he was one of the aging Ken Doll types. He didn't look inbred.
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I really don't think he's a machista looking to fuck every hole. I just think he wants to know just how sexual you are and wanted to know if you like girls, he just doesn't know how to ask... I just think it's a question of him not being too smart...you were way too hard on him.
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1/2/2008 7:01 pm |
From the diction in the letter, I'd guess that it was a woman posing as a man hoping to make a connection without regard to what your profile says. You might be onto something with that forced femme kink, though.....maybe not into giving blow jobs but, at a minimum, searching for a dominate female. I got hit-on the other day by some guy looking for some bone. I just sent an auto reply saying that I don't think we share the same kink and left it at that. I tore into a gay guy once on my old blog for sending an explicit letter and decided it best to let sleeping dogs lie in the future. Assuming that I was a female in some past life ....I'd have answered his questions with a "none of your damn business" and "read the profile".
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1/2/2008 8:59 pm |
no you didn't tone it down enough. Ignore it. Just like there's no reason for them to respond to your kilometrical list of demands, there's no reason for you to respond to their lack of tact, intelligence and social skills. Let it go. ***tee hee***
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You were outvoted. I haven't gotten soft.
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If he was truly submissive and not just some guy that wanted to be tied up and pleasured, with no thought to his partner's orgasm, he would have been turned on by my response. But I'm guessing he's just another one who wants every single kink out there, without mommy or a wife to tell him no, or a hooker telling him what it will cost. I blame Penthouse Variations (yes, I did go there,) for all these pretend submissive men who think submitting means they get tied up and serviced and once again, their orgasm is their Domme's orgasm. Yeah, there's lots of men being tied up and fucked in licensed dungeons... ugh.
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From the diction in the letter, I'd guess that it was a woman posing as a man hoping to make a connection without regard to what your profile says. You might be onto something with that forced femme kink, though.....maybe not into giving blow jobs but, at a minimum, searching for a dominate female. I got hit-on the other day by some guy looking for some bone. I just sent an auto reply saying that I don't think we share the same kink and left it at that. I tore into a gay guy once on my old blog for sending an explicit letter and decided it best to let sleeping dogs lie in the future. Assuming that I was a female in some past life ....I'd have answered his questions with a "none of your damn business" and "read the profile".Chances are, I gave this guy a dose of the abuse he so craves. Either that or he is so dumb as to think women are supposed to be nothing but holes.
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Tehehe. But I got spanked for even suggesting the first one.
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no you didn't tone it down enough. Ignore it. Just like there's no reason for them to respond to your kilometrical list of demands, there's no reason for you to respond to their lack of tact, intelligence and social skills. Let it go.
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Sadly we don't all have great teachers. We don't all learn how to communicate effectively in English in a public place like Lesbian Date Network. To use this site I think it's a good idea to try to ignore the flaws and try to enjoy people for their good points. Nothing in that email he sent you was nasty and I think you were hard on him. Hormones are no excuse for bad manners which is what you showed him with your response. Come on, you're a seasoned communicator and he's not. He's the guy shivering and shaking with nerves at a party. He's the poor lad trying to find enough dutch courage to go talk to the interesting clever girl. Don't ever give up searching for the fun in life.
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Free hookers? Is that like Free the Chicago Seven? I thought sex was supposed to be a mutual exchange of pleasure between consenting adults... I still think Mis Ann should venture out to the West Coast, where some males have somewhat evolved...
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He did write back and apologize. He thought he was asking acceptable and "light" questions based on whichever portal to this site he comes in through. But this entire all women who are sexually active have to be bi attitude born of boutique porn just has to go. I still think I was in my rights to ask him if he enjoyed the company of men sexually.
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Sadly we don't all have great teachers. We don't all learn how to communicate effectively in English in a public place like Lesbian Date Network. To use this site I think it's a good idea to try to ignore the flaws and try to enjoy people for their good points. Nothing in that email he sent you was nasty and I think you were hard on him. Hormones are no excuse for bad manners which is what you showed him with your response. Come on, you're a seasoned communicator and he's not. He's the guy shivering and shaking with nerves at a party. He's the poor lad trying to find enough dutch courage to go talk to the interesting clever girl. He did write and apologize. It would seem asking straight women if they dig chicks is a "light" question.
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Free hookers? Is that like Free the Chicago Seven? I thought sex was supposed to be a mutual exchange of pleasure between consenting adults... I still think Mis Ann should venture out to the West Coast, where some males have somewhat evolved...
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That's because he couldn't find the clitoris and asked if she'd do a chick for him. That breathing hard was her about to blow.
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Actually Ann, there are many places in California that are cheap to rent and the costs are not that different from OK. Gas is higher, but you don't drive so that is irrelevant. Also you can get great recycled clothes as many buy stuff and never wear it, then donate it! There is a great need for temp workers and that is always good for someone in your situation... Just a thought. Why not agree to the idea of a paid for visit? I would, but then I am an optimist and adventurer...
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Actually Ann, there are many places in California that are cheap to rent and the costs are not that different from OK. Gas is higher, but you don't drive so that is irrelevant. Also you can get great recycled clothes as many buy stuff and never wear it, then donate it! There is a great need for temp workers and that is always good for someone in your situation... Just a thought. Why not agree to the idea of a paid for visit? I would, but then I am an optimist and adventurer... It isn't just gas that's cheap here. Cigarettes are $2 a pack. Booze is insanely cheap. Not to mention, the idea of living in a major earthquake zone doesn't thrill me.
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Earthquakes are bad, but hurricanes last for a week and kill many more; tornadoes are much worse and last much longer than earthquakes. And more people die in the US from slipping in the tub or lightning strikes than earthquakes.
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Cold weather kills many more than earthquakes too...
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Cold weather kills many more than earthquakes too...
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