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MASTER  

izzie1 52M
413 posts
5/15/2012 3:23 pm

Last Read:
8/19/2016 7:36 pm

MASTER


For me being the Master in a relationship does not have to include humiliations, collars or hanging hooks. I know and get that there are people who love that, need it, in fact. I'm fascinated by it but purely as a voyeur. I can appreciate the dedication.
I feel being the Master is a position of responsibility and I don't take it lightly. I have a responsibility for her safety, security, well being of her mind and body. I am tasked with providing for her in an emotional and sexual way. She wants to escape when she submits. She wants to clear her mind so she can have that release from her stresses. She wants me to steer the ship. I am pleased for do it. In fact, I want and need to do it.
My priority is her satisfaction. Her being able to be free. Her submission is her freedom. Her submission is her power. It's her choice. She chooses to ask me to provide what she needs.
I nourish her.
It's not all about choke collars, doggie style and throat fucking.
It's my job to know when she needs to be cared for. To know that often it needs to be gentle. The hard is not sustainable. That is the release.
Providing a chest to sleep on is as important as knowing how much is too much.
Providing something to crave is my real job. Addicting her to me. My voice, just seeing me, a text causes a reaction inside her.
It's not all about being hard. It's not all about sex. It's about commanding her body. It's about doing for her body. It's about creating sensations to crave.
If I get her completely worked up and have her put me in her mouth and then don't allow her to suck me. To just rest my hardness in her mouth. She needs to suck me. Wants to, more than anything but I make her wait. I force her to wait.
If I have her straddle me and keep me inside her without moving. Just being completely still. Feeling the pulse. Stopping the movement of her hips. Providing correction when she can't control her body. It's a little torturing. It's the control she gives me for her. She knows we will get her there and trusts that her pleasure is my priority.
It's good to be the Master.
Who wants to be Mastered?

Do me a favor...go look at one of my other posts and make a comment... please...


traveljunkie13 56F
11089 posts
6/10/2012 5:30 pm

No battle on my blog, just an asshole who likes to stop by blogs and stir up shit I give everyone a chance to come and speak their peace. I don't expect everyone to agree with me or like what I post, so I rarely ban anyone. But the misogynistic bastard is beginning to push his luck.


izzie1 replies on 6/10/2012 5:39 pm:
Yeah...he's a bit of a nut...

traveljunkie13 56F
11089 posts
6/9/2012 7:47 pm

Thank you for stopping by my blog and double thanks for pointing me here

This is totally what I was trying to express in my post and it's nice to see that some men really do get it


izzie1 replies on 6/9/2012 10:50 pm:
We get it..some of us...it just depends on what you need...
I see you doing battle on your blog with someone 3,000 miles away...why not tell him to Fuck off....ic that's where you are with him amd move om

AudioFilly 58F  
1897 posts
5/18/2012 4:05 pm

Oh, yes...that's it exactly. My man has me so tuned in that I go wet at the sound of his 'hello.' For a long time we played out our roles more intensely & he had me trained to orgasm on command. We'd be having a perfectly innocent conversation & he'd drop in the code word & boom, I'd explode. There is such an incredible release in trusting someone that much & giving them that much power. It's better than any therapy I've ever participated in.


39lawless 58F
6864 posts
5/17/2012 6:05 am

ha - you can come cross my lines anytime!!!!

Always tell the truth
Use kind words
Keep your promises
Giggle and laugh
Be positive
Love one another
Always be grateful
Forgiveness is mandatory
Try new things
Say please and thank you
Say your prayers
Smile

~Author unknown


rm_cocokitty66 58F
3276 posts
5/16/2012 12:11 pm

I've always thought that I would be more the Dom personality but after reading this, I think I am incorrect. You perfectly described what I look for in am encounter with someone. It brought a tear to my eye

.."...and then God created the orgasm, so women can moan even when they are happy"- Tantra


izzie1 replies on 5/16/2012 12:23 pm:
Tears can be an incredible release...I have brought more than one woman to tears...and the tears were not in sadness. They set her free...the salty taste lf sexual tears is quite unique...
I'm glad you discovered my blog.
I hope to see your comments again.
Thank you for the words

39lawless 58F
6864 posts
5/16/2012 3:47 am

Ummmm, yes please! HAWT!!!!!

Always tell the truth
Use kind words
Keep your promises
Giggle and laugh
Be positive
Love one another
Always be grateful
Forgiveness is mandatory
Try new things
Say please and thank you
Say your prayers
Smile

~Author unknown


izzie1 replies on 5/16/2012 6:34 am:
Wow...really....I hadn't thought you would like this sort of thing at all...you seem sort of closed off and Puritanical from your profile and blog.
I thought this might cross the line a little for you...

anastasia666 46F
2231 posts
5/16/2012 2:20 am

Hello,

Wow..very well said. A Master who actually Gets it..what we Subs truly want.

Thanks for sharing..Glad to see at least one man/Master understands and is willing to do what it takes to satisfy a woman.

Hugs,

Ana6



I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


izzie1 replies on 5/16/2012 9:23 am:
It's not for everyone...but if you find the right Master...it's pretty fucking spectacular...thank you for the comments

rm_NIKLA2011 51F
5789 posts
5/15/2012 10:03 pm

YES!

to all of it!!


izzie1 replies on 5/16/2012 4:37 am:
Nik...I think you are perfectly suited for this kind of relationship.
All your angst and stresses of the day could just be released...
It's shockingly theraputic with the right Master.
Not that you need therapy...but we all need to find an outlet for that release

hotmamabear 60F  
356 posts
5/15/2012 8:43 pm

hmmm I've been thinking about this for a while now.....I'm not submissive when it comes to every day life, but at times feel the need to be sexually. To just 'be' and know that HE knows what I need and desire, that he controls my body and is in charge of my pleasure, THAT gets my blood pumping. As you said, it isn't all about humiliation, collars, whips and immense pain.....for me it's more with my mind, I want you to get inside my head, know what I want before I even do myself


izzie1 replies on 5/16/2012 3:51 am:
Many women who are submissive sexually are not submisive in the rest of their life. Quite the opposite actually. It takes a strong woman to give up her power.
My theory is....when she gives that responsibility away it affords her the opportunity to discharge and then recharge her own power even stronger.
It's my ideal.
I love strong smart women.
It takes a woman that can understand the big picture who is willing to be submissive in this way.
It's very cerebral.
But it's not for everybody.
It's a position of responsibility
Some of us are wired for it.

buxombbw4u 56F
16144 posts
5/15/2012 6:41 pm

izzie1 replies on 5/15/2012 8:22 pm:
No good?


I didn't say THAT.

2022... it HAS be better, right?!


buxombbw4u 56F
16144 posts
5/15/2012 5:17 pm

Oh my.

2022... it HAS be better, right?!


izzie1 replies on 5/15/2012 5:22 pm:
No good?

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